When it comes to women and intimacy, there are many mistakes that could be avoided. One common mistake is that women are too concerned over their appearance. When they are in the middle of an intimate moment they start thinking about how imperfect their body is and often times they even open up the subject with their significant other. This of course could be a turn off especially if you are in the heat of the moment. Another mistake that some women make is that they are afraid to take the initiative. When it comes to foreplay, you should not always wait for the man to come onto you, remember, it is very sexy if you actually kiss first. In addition, keep in mind that most men have fantasies that they want to heave fulfilled. If you could help them out with something that they want and like, you are going to be the queen of the night.